20 things I've learned in 20 Years

I never really make personal posts but since I turned the big 2.0 I thought I would try something new. Because that's what life is about, right? Trying new things. Figuring out what's for you and what's not. And of course leaning. Learning is probably the biggest part about living. You learn something every. single. day. The question is just whether or not you want to do something about it. It would be amazing if you share some of the things you have learned through the years in the comments down below.

1. I have learned that nothing I worry about now will matter in a year

2. I have learned that I really just like fries as they are - without any ketchup, mayo or anything like that. I just like the fries. 'I like you very much.. just as you are' (such a smooth Bridget Jones reference, haha)

3. I have learned that I can actually just cut your own hair - A year ago I would NEVER touch my hair with scissors but now I'm like fuck it and then I just cut my ends when they need it - Now here I am with side bangs.

4. I have learned that if I'm sitting in a queue on the highway just let it go and relax. There is nothing, NOTHING, I can do about it other than wait and do not be that person who does the illegal thing and use the emergency lane..

5. I have learned that switching it up sometimes whether it being my hair, my room decoration or whatever it might be reboots my energy. Gives some new life. (Cutting your hair is incredibly liberating tho!!)

6. I have learned that meditating or just taking a few minutes to breathe with my eyes closed is one of the most giving things I can do to myself.

7. I have learned that using toilet paper instead of paper towels when blowing my nose is so much softer and your nose will be less red.

8. I have learned that it's okay to say no - I don't have to do things I don't want to because I don't want to hurt others feelings.

9. I have learned that I need to stand by who I am.

10. I have learned that the most satisfying thing in the entire world is opening a perfectly ripe avocado. It's just the best thing ever.. and eating it afterwards is not so bad either, haha.

11. I have learned that I don't have time to watch all series ever. There is just not enough time. Not even to watch all the series I want to watch.. Prioritize, prioritizing is key.

12. I have learned that if I want to do something I should just do it instead of overthinking and worrying about what others think. Fuck what others think! Since they like to talk so much then why not give them something they can talk about??

13. I have learned that I never stop learning.

14. I have learned that I absolutely love making other people laugh just as much as I love laughing myself. Also, laughing at yourself is the best thing ever! Hey, there clumsy self, how ya doin?.

15. I have learned that sometimes I just have to let go and move on.

16. I have learned that a pros and cons list will in theory always work to make decisions but that's with your head and not your heart and we all know the heart has it's own life...

17. I have learned that I am the absolute worst at small talk.. Like.. I just don't know how to do it. Hoooow?? What do you say.. It's just so awkward..Small talk? No thank you.

18. I have learned that I can do anything if I work hard enough. 

19. I have learned that I am that type of person who listens to one song over and over and then I hear another one and then I listen to that song over and over. And that just goes on and on..

20. I have learned that you can never please everybody and the only person you should please is yourself. Hell, yeah preach it gurl! But seriously!